What is Cyberbully?
Cyberbullying is the act of harming or harassing via information technology networks in a repeated and deliberate manner.
Team Discussion
1st question: how do you define cyberbully?
Yoyi: cyberbully is a kind of bully online in any social websites to harm the one with hate.
Cristina: According to dictionary.com cyberbully is the act of harassing someone online by sending or posting meanmessages, usually anonymously. But I think that in many ways, cyberbully is a very hard thing to define because there is really no way to know 100% how someone feels and everybody define or see things differently. To me cyberbully is when people are being unnecessarily rude to you on the internet to the point that making the other person virtual life unbearable and difficult to be in the internet. But even is a write that I am not even sure myself of what it is, because in many ways is not a reality for me. What I mean is because I am not in a any way famous in the internet and I don't spend time giving my opinion or creating content for the mass media to see I don't worry or care for other people’s opinions whatsoever. But I understand that to some this is very real people kill themselves over this, the impact that people bombarding you with hate message must be horrible, I imagine. I think that for something to have such an effect on you it has to matter to you very much and if the your internet life matters to you then it makes sense but like most thing is not necessarily the case for everybody.
Dolphin: For me, I think cyber bully is not a kind of bully, because you can just don’t see the comment of others. On internet, what you see is just others review and they didn’t think that they are hurting you, but what you feel is you have hurting by someone. In fact, when we get bully from punch or others, we can’t escape easily but on the internet you can just close your computer easily, you don’t have to care what others saying about you.
Amy: In my opinion, cyberbully is a way of bully. In this way, bullyer and victim are not face to face. The bullyer harm the victim through offensive word or article. People pose something harmful to someone online.
2nd question:" who would suffer" means who are the victims of cyber bully?
Dolphin: Definitely both, you get suffer when someone comment badly about you, but the one who comment badly on you, when others saw it, they will said “wow, you are so bad, you are bullying someone!” and finally the people get suffer too. It just like a kind of cycle.
Yoyi: both will suffer from cyberbully ,the one who get bully will be hurt and can revenge on the one who bully them ,and the other who harm the victim on the internet, if he or she get caught will get punishment even send to the prison.
Cristina: The victims of cyber bully just like in real bully is everybody. No one benefits 100% by being negative towards one another, if you attack someone other people will attack you so maybe we are all at fault. Maybe is society that needs to change, but I don’t know if that is even the correct answer.
Amy: I think both bullyer and people suffered by them are victim. People who bully another are also suffered from another bully which affects them to suffer someone. That is a bad circulation.
3rd question: Why do people bully? ( reasons of cyber bully)
Yoyi: because they have something bad situation on him or he/she doesn't know that it will harm people maybe they think is funny
Cristina: I for the most part think that cyberbullying come from a place of insecurity, jealousy, envy, boredom or just straight trolling. Trolling is to upset or provoke (other users) by posting such messages or comments (dictionary.com) people sometimes just like to see the internet go crazy for stupid things that well they really don’t care because no one can do anything to them. And in a sense that’s what so great about the internet and so terrible about it. If we could insult people to their faces without facing any consequences we would, I think the internet is a great example of that.
Amy: I think it is because people whose hearts is sick, they give vent to angry, jealous thoughts through cyber bully.
Dolphin: I think it was because they envy about the person, maybe his talent or whatever. And maybe they just follow other doing like others was bullying someone and he just follow.
4th question: How do people cyberbully? (by which ways?)
Yoyi -They write on any social website to chat with people about the victim’s information, and always write the bad things of her or she
Amy: People express their offensive opinion about other people in the social website such as Facebook, Twitter.
Cristina: Hate speech that is how people cyberbully. Anything from bad comments, to songs, videos… whatever form of media even mass messaging… that is how people get cyber bully.
Dolphin: They like to write whatever they think on the social sites when they say something funny or others and didn’t bother about what they said and comment maybe will hurt someone.And, this will be the start of cyberbully.
5th: Any stories, movies about cyber bully to share ( either the happy or sad ending ones)
Dolphin: There was a movie name “Cyberbully”(2011). It tells a girl who being cyberbully and her mother is trying to help her daughter on the suffer. The quote of this movie is “Words can hurt”. It is interesting and we can learn a lot in this movie, and it shows the cyberbully these day.
Amy: I remember a news happened in 2015. It is about an artist named Cindy commit suicide because of cyber bully. The news is popular and everybody discusses it. Because of it, the public begin to pay attention to the severity of cyber bully.
Cristina: I had a friend of mine that was cyber bullied because she didn’t had a fight with a girl and there was a lot of drama. So let’s call my friend girl A and the other girl B. Because girl B wasn’t part of our group because we didn’t like them but girl A liked to hang out with her which is okay because everyone can do whatever they like. However things turned a bit sour because in a party they had a fight and a lot of drama happened. The thing is girl B is part of the popular group of school and all her group of friends and her boyfriends group gang up on her sending her tons of hate mail. She was sad about it and she felt like she was completely betrayed by someone that she consider her friend because of a stupid fight. They got called to see the principal and they all had to write apology letter and apologize to her in person. She could never be friends again but we all got over it.
Yoyi: I didn’t like to see some things like hurting other people so I get nothing to share, but my brother have been cyberbully from his secondary school,that some of the student use Facebook to create another Facebook with my brother name and write many things bad about his school, but how do we find out? because their classmate show it to the school, but it is ridiculous, because that Facebook website it all Spanish how my brother just enter the school can write spanish so well , but anyway we didn’t find out who did it, but my brother just change school and he is well there.
6th: How to help the victims or to prevent cyber bully?
Dolphin: You can just off all your social websites and don’t use it, maybe it looks like you are evading but the truth is if you didn’t saw those comment, you will not be hurt. We can’t make sure everyone like us. We are not perfection.
Yoyi: I think we need to be care about the others and help the one who need helps them to solve the problem and tell the parents the situation not just cover it with secret and that the bullyier knows that you didn’t care and it is not funny, so the bullyier will stop, all of it is from my own experiences, because even the buller will get bored from bullying the others. Cristina: The only thing I can think so is blog people. Many websites have policies against hate speech towards other people. Also stop visiting or using the places where you are getting hate from. Is like in real life if someone is being rude and you don’t like it, just avoid them all together and ignore them, I think engaging in the hate just makes it worse.
Amy: People should care more about their friends, family, and classmates. We should tell bully sufferers they are not alone, and accompany them to face cyber bully.
Yoyi: cyberbully is a kind of bully online in any social websites to harm the one with hate.
Cristina: According to dictionary.com cyberbully is the act of harassing someone online by sending or posting meanmessages, usually anonymously. But I think that in many ways, cyberbully is a very hard thing to define because there is really no way to know 100% how someone feels and everybody define or see things differently. To me cyberbully is when people are being unnecessarily rude to you on the internet to the point that making the other person virtual life unbearable and difficult to be in the internet. But even is a write that I am not even sure myself of what it is, because in many ways is not a reality for me. What I mean is because I am not in a any way famous in the internet and I don't spend time giving my opinion or creating content for the mass media to see I don't worry or care for other people’s opinions whatsoever. But I understand that to some this is very real people kill themselves over this, the impact that people bombarding you with hate message must be horrible, I imagine. I think that for something to have such an effect on you it has to matter to you very much and if the your internet life matters to you then it makes sense but like most thing is not necessarily the case for everybody.
Dolphin: For me, I think cyber bully is not a kind of bully, because you can just don’t see the comment of others. On internet, what you see is just others review and they didn’t think that they are hurting you, but what you feel is you have hurting by someone. In fact, when we get bully from punch or others, we can’t escape easily but on the internet you can just close your computer easily, you don’t have to care what others saying about you.
Amy: In my opinion, cyberbully is a way of bully. In this way, bullyer and victim are not face to face. The bullyer harm the victim through offensive word or article. People pose something harmful to someone online.
2nd question:" who would suffer" means who are the victims of cyber bully?
Dolphin: Definitely both, you get suffer when someone comment badly about you, but the one who comment badly on you, when others saw it, they will said “wow, you are so bad, you are bullying someone!” and finally the people get suffer too. It just like a kind of cycle.
Yoyi: both will suffer from cyberbully ,the one who get bully will be hurt and can revenge on the one who bully them ,and the other who harm the victim on the internet, if he or she get caught will get punishment even send to the prison.
Cristina: The victims of cyber bully just like in real bully is everybody. No one benefits 100% by being negative towards one another, if you attack someone other people will attack you so maybe we are all at fault. Maybe is society that needs to change, but I don’t know if that is even the correct answer.
Amy: I think both bullyer and people suffered by them are victim. People who bully another are also suffered from another bully which affects them to suffer someone. That is a bad circulation.
3rd question: Why do people bully? ( reasons of cyber bully)
Yoyi: because they have something bad situation on him or he/she doesn't know that it will harm people maybe they think is funny
Cristina: I for the most part think that cyberbullying come from a place of insecurity, jealousy, envy, boredom or just straight trolling. Trolling is to upset or provoke (other users) by posting such messages or comments (dictionary.com) people sometimes just like to see the internet go crazy for stupid things that well they really don’t care because no one can do anything to them. And in a sense that’s what so great about the internet and so terrible about it. If we could insult people to their faces without facing any consequences we would, I think the internet is a great example of that.
Amy: I think it is because people whose hearts is sick, they give vent to angry, jealous thoughts through cyber bully.
Dolphin: I think it was because they envy about the person, maybe his talent or whatever. And maybe they just follow other doing like others was bullying someone and he just follow.
4th question: How do people cyberbully? (by which ways?)
Yoyi -They write on any social website to chat with people about the victim’s information, and always write the bad things of her or she
Amy: People express their offensive opinion about other people in the social website such as Facebook, Twitter.
Cristina: Hate speech that is how people cyberbully. Anything from bad comments, to songs, videos… whatever form of media even mass messaging… that is how people get cyber bully.
Dolphin: They like to write whatever they think on the social sites when they say something funny or others and didn’t bother about what they said and comment maybe will hurt someone.And, this will be the start of cyberbully.
5th: Any stories, movies about cyber bully to share ( either the happy or sad ending ones)
Dolphin: There was a movie name “Cyberbully”(2011). It tells a girl who being cyberbully and her mother is trying to help her daughter on the suffer. The quote of this movie is “Words can hurt”. It is interesting and we can learn a lot in this movie, and it shows the cyberbully these day.
Amy: I remember a news happened in 2015. It is about an artist named Cindy commit suicide because of cyber bully. The news is popular and everybody discusses it. Because of it, the public begin to pay attention to the severity of cyber bully.
Cristina: I had a friend of mine that was cyber bullied because she didn’t had a fight with a girl and there was a lot of drama. So let’s call my friend girl A and the other girl B. Because girl B wasn’t part of our group because we didn’t like them but girl A liked to hang out with her which is okay because everyone can do whatever they like. However things turned a bit sour because in a party they had a fight and a lot of drama happened. The thing is girl B is part of the popular group of school and all her group of friends and her boyfriends group gang up on her sending her tons of hate mail. She was sad about it and she felt like she was completely betrayed by someone that she consider her friend because of a stupid fight. They got called to see the principal and they all had to write apology letter and apologize to her in person. She could never be friends again but we all got over it.
Yoyi: I didn’t like to see some things like hurting other people so I get nothing to share, but my brother have been cyberbully from his secondary school,that some of the student use Facebook to create another Facebook with my brother name and write many things bad about his school, but how do we find out? because their classmate show it to the school, but it is ridiculous, because that Facebook website it all Spanish how my brother just enter the school can write spanish so well , but anyway we didn’t find out who did it, but my brother just change school and he is well there.
6th: How to help the victims or to prevent cyber bully?
Dolphin: You can just off all your social websites and don’t use it, maybe it looks like you are evading but the truth is if you didn’t saw those comment, you will not be hurt. We can’t make sure everyone like us. We are not perfection.
Yoyi: I think we need to be care about the others and help the one who need helps them to solve the problem and tell the parents the situation not just cover it with secret and that the bullyier knows that you didn’t care and it is not funny, so the bullyier will stop, all of it is from my own experiences, because even the buller will get bored from bullying the others. Cristina: The only thing I can think so is blog people. Many websites have policies against hate speech towards other people. Also stop visiting or using the places where you are getting hate from. Is like in real life if someone is being rude and you don’t like it, just avoid them all together and ignore them, I think engaging in the hate just makes it worse.
Amy: People should care more about their friends, family, and classmates. We should tell bully sufferers they are not alone, and accompany them to face cyber bully.
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